BABY MAMA'S AND FATHERS, ARE THEY A GUARANTEED LAY?

I have a question, real nigga shit yo! I was having a conversation with my boy and his wife the other night. He turns around and says that ex wives and baby momma's (I hate that terminology) are guaranteed p*ss* (my apologies, I hate that word, but that's what he said)! She on the other hand disagreed.  She said that that's ignorance and if that's the case, that means that all ex husbands and baby fathers are a guaranteed lay!  Now you tell me, cause my next friend (a dude) said the SAME THING couple months ago.  But when it became a debate amongst myself and the married couple, it prompted this blog entry.

Is that what most people think? Do they really believe that these men and women are guaranteed? If so, why? Cause there had to be a reason for the breakup and was the reason so bad, certainly not because the sex is still passing.  SMH I respect my ex, to the fullest.  We are the closest of friends and BOTH understand that there is a level of respect that we have to have for one another and our partners that could or should NEVER be crossed.  It does have those 'couples' that do leave themselves available to one another but does that mean that everyone that has been married or had children together do that?  Not in my opinion. Even so, is that what the majority believes when the two individuals are close?  Does that mean I owe everyone that sees me with my ex an explanation because they are thinking the worst? Especially the ones that know my husband?  Wow!  I didn't think it was like that, people have too much time on their hands and overactive imaginations in my opinion.  Whats yours?